My ex's psychologist who specialized in BPD advised
me to get the heck out before he did me in physically
and emotionally. It would never change because he
had no desire to recognize it or change it. I had
the exact experience you describe. After a year,
since I left the marriage, of grieving, my life is
peaceful and abundant. Take care of your needs.
No one else will.
Wishing you all the best,
A.K.'s Response to Wende
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